tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-54510560349783921172024-02-02T00:48:54.410-06:00Joyful Family LifeI'm a counselor, a wife, and a mom. Over the years I have learned a thing or two about relationships, parenting, and emotional fulfillment. I hope this little piece of the web gives you some peace, laughter, and knowledge about living a joyful life.Niccihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06448698297424255518noreply@blogger.comBlogger245125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5451056034978392117.post-71018188386923820592017-03-11T16:39:00.000-06:002017-03-11T16:39:28.932-06:00Book Review: Bucket of Awesome<div style="text-align: center;">
Can I start by saying how much I love reading books from <a href="http://www.familius.com/">Familius publishing</a>? Every book I've read and reviewed for their company has been fantastic, and I love their motto of "Helping Families Be Happy." Therefore, I'm excited to introduce another fantastic book from Familius - <u><a href="http://www.familius.com/bucket-of-awesome">Bucket of Awesome</a></u>. Written by Kathryn Thompson, the author of <u>Drops of Awesome</u>, this new book hopes to inspire autobiographies with more heart and flare.</div>
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Explained by Thompson, "Bucket of Awesome is a processing and writing guidebook to help put your life into joyful and hopeful focus. Working through its pages, you will learn and remember all the things that have made your life so remarkable and you will come to tell your story from a place of joy and optimism."</div>
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In my counseling practice, I often teach the skill of re-framing, which means I help clients look at other perspectives of a story. Re-telling a story from a new perspective, whether that be a more compassionate tone or a warrior persona, can break the bonds of depression and fear. <u>Bucket of Awesome</u> encourages the writer to record stories with that positive eye.</div>
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<i>Your life is amazing - You are amazing - You have amazing stories to tell!</i></div>
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In the past, when I've studied my genealogy, I've gotten sooo excited just seeing an ancestor's handwriting. Reading their written letters (even when it's about a water well being dug on the property) is super cool. Just knowing their occupation brings joy to my heart. Imagine how your grandchildren will feel someday reading your life story. Due to technology, your descendants will have more than a simple occupation: they'll have stories, pictures, and social media posts. You can leave them all kinds of stories, helped along by <u>Bucket of Awesome</u>.</div>
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As I answered the question prompts throughout the book, I learned that I love cheesecake (probably too much for my own health!) and that it was always important to me to feel at home. Whether I was working in another state or away at college, I made my apartment a home. Home means more than four walls; home is a place where love dwells. As my children get older, home-making has become even more fun. Decorating for holidays spread cheer. Singing songs in the car sound better. Coloring pictures has more purpose. And yes, I find myself becoming more and more like my amazing mother. As I write down the moments that made me feel loved as a child, I am reminded to provide similar moments for my own kiddos. For example, I was sooo excited the night that my mom let me stay up late to watch "Bonanza" with her on the television. It was a secret from my brother, and I felt so special. Now, I am reminded to spend special one-on-one snuggles with my kids too.</div>
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My life may be simple 90% of the time, but it can be <i>awesomely</i> simple. Daily moments of joy make my world brighter. Remembering little things about my first job and my first car inspire more gratitude for the blessings I enjoy today. Remembering the smells of holidays motivates me to "bring the holidays home" for my kiddos. <u>Bucket of Awesome</u> makes it simple to record memories that would be otherwise stored away on the dusty shelf; instead, those memories tie into a grand story. I'm so grateful that this book encourages (or forces!) me to journal. Remembering the good, and re-framing the frustrations into learning experiences, helps me see how awesome life truly can be.</div>
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Find <a href="http://www.familius.com/bucket-of-awesome"><u>Drops of Awesome</u> on Familius Publishing's website</a>. Click the link to learn more! <span style="font-size: x-small;">I was lucky enough to review this book with my own free copy, but this review is my own opinion and was not influenced in any way by the author or publisher.</span></div>
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Niccihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06448698297424255518noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5451056034978392117.post-33290929643328898642017-03-06T15:58:00.003-06:002017-03-06T15:59:34.700-06:00Giveaway with Usborne Books (Pt 4)<div style="text-align: center;">
My fourth and final post about incredible Usborne Books: If you've been following along, you've learned how Usborne books can the enrich the lives of your babies, your toddlers, your creative kiddos, your science loving kiddos, and your hands-on adventurers. I mean, how much cooler can you get than a book that actually includes a race-track fora wind-up car? Or a books that makes fractions look fun?</div>
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A few months ago I met Ruth, a <a href="https://y3214.myubam.com/613057">Usborne book</a> representative. Simon was playing with her book display at a fundraiser extravaganza and fell in love with a <a href="https://y3214.myubam.com/p/5745/build-your-own-dinosaurs-sticker-book">dinosaur sticker book</a>. (Obviously, that book came home with us.) And now, I'm happy to announce that Ruth is sponsoring my next giveaway!! Woo-hoo!</div>
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were mine. I could lose myself in their stories. Their struggles, their hopes and
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courage.”</i> Storytelling is an effective way to help children develop character
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">There are so many great categories of books that Usborne Publishing has to offer. Look backwards on the blog to learn about their </span><a href="http://joyfulfamilylife.blogspot.com/2017/02/giveaway-with-usborne-books-pt-2.html" style="font-family: inherit;">hands-on books</a><span style="font-family: inherit;"> (like wind-up books and sticker books) and </span><a href="http://joyfulfamilylife.blogspot.com/2017/02/giveaway-with-usborne-books-more.html" style="font-family: inherit;">non-fiction books for all hobbies and childhood interests</a><span style="font-family: inherit;"> (like dinosaurs and the human body).</span></div>
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they are listening! At this age, <a href="https://y3214.myubam.com/search?q=board+books">board books</a> are strong enough to handle a toddlers rough play or a babies bite. Features of great board books
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">If you followed my last post, you know that we"ll be talking about Usborne's amazing books in a four part series. Follow along with each post to earn more entries into the book giveaway! Your kids will love everything in their online catalog - good luck!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">The older my kids get, the more they want to touch and hold and handle everything.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: inherit;">Toddlers always say, "No mommy, I do it myself!"</span><br />
<span style="font-family: inherit;">My first introduction to Usborne books were their detailed sticker books. A couple years ago I ordered a </span><a href="https://y3214.myubam.com/p/5627/first-sticker-book-princesses" style="font-family: inherit;">Princess Sticker book</a><span style="font-family: inherit;"> and a </span><a href="https://y3214.myubam.com/p/2594/dressing-up-sticker-book-nativity-play" style="font-family: inherit;">Nativity scene sticker book</a><span style="font-family: inherit;"> as Christmas gifts. I was excited to see how detailed the stickers were, since they matched the page designs exactly. The little activities like dressing the characters and building the castle made the sticker books turn into activity books. Super fun for kids (and mommies.)</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">A few months ago I met Ruth, a </span><a href="https://y3214.myubam.com/613057" style="font-family: inherit;">Usborne book</a><span style="font-family: inherit;"> representative. Simon was playing with her book display at a fundraiser extravaganza and fell in love with a </span><a href="https://y3214.myubam.com/p/5745/build-your-own-dinosaurs-sticker-book" style="font-family: inherit;">dinosaur sticker book</a><span style="font-family: inherit;">. (Obviously, that book came home with us.) And now, I'm happy to announce that Ruth is sponsoring my next giveaway!! Woo-hoo!</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: inherit;">Ruth is also contributing on the blog, and over the next four posts, she'll describe all the fun ways that Usborne books can enrich your family. These amazing books are not only educational and fun, but they are quality-made inexpensive items. Durable books that don't cost a fortune? A parent's dream come true, right?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><a href="https://y3214.myubam.com/search?q=sticker">Sticker books</a> help kids develop fine motor skills, sorting skills, visual discrimination, counting skills, one-to-one correspondence, and language development. All that in a sticker book! Who loves sticker books?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Now that my oldest kiddo is in Kindergarten, we are reading lots and lots of books!</span><br />
<span style="font-family: inherit;">His little brain seems to be booming with new knowledge, and I love seeing him soak up new words like a sponge. Luckily, we have a growing book collection to keep him interested in reading. We inherited books from cousins, and we add to our kid collection frequently. Books for Christmas! Books for birthdays! Books for holidays! Books just because they were on sale! I am so happy that Simon loves to read, and his little sisters follow his example. They all love books.</span><br />
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Our kids were so excited to celebrate Valentine's Day. They weren't old enough to expect candy and cards, but they knew it was a day about <b>love</b>. They were excited to spread kindness and love to their friends and family! A few weeks ago, we bought felt envelopes at Hobby Lobby to get into the valentines mood. After each kid decorated an envelope with felt hearts, they drew pictures for each other. Every now and then, they would add another drawing inside someone's envelope, so little love surprises would be found. Cute, right?</div>
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Once it was finally February, I added a few more decor items around the house. The red heart was only $1, and I painted on the "Hello" and flowers. My original plan was to hang the heart outside, so we sealed it to protect it from rain, but then I changed my mind and placed it on the mantle.</div>
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My outside porch wall wasn't draped in mounds of red or pink, but I still liked it bright cheery message. A friend made the chalkboard sign for me last year, and I thought its cheery, yellow presence would brighten up our cloudy post-winter weather. The flowers for the wreath were wrapped in a couple strands of fishing wire to keep the wind from destroying their look. I wanted our outside porch wall to be reayd for Spring, without having to change too much after February 14th.</div>
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For the big V-Day itself, we cut out paper hearts and taped them around the family room. Easy-peasy and perfect for our Little Kid Valentine's Day party. The afternoon of February 14th was enjoyed by 20ish kids (ages 0-4) and their awesome mommas. One Dad came to join the fun too! With a houseful of little ones, I figured paper hearts would be the most kid-friendly way to color up the room. Grace drew a bunch of snowmen on her hearts, and Ruby scribbled. The paper hearts did their job and lovied-up the room.</div>
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For Valentine's Day morning, I arranged all their felt envelopes around their chairs, filled with chocolate goodies. I added the yellow roses<span style="font-family: inherit;">, but my amazing husband added the pink roses as a surprise for our daughters. The story goes like this: </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Yesterday in the car, Grace told me she wanted flowers from Daddy. Then, before bedtime I casually mentioned it to Johnny, mostly to describe how much she loved her dad. When I came into the kitchen the next morning to start a special Valentine's Day breakfast, Johnny was arranging roses in vases for all his girls.</span></div>
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You can see his pink roses on the table in our breakfast picture. I'm pretty sure chocolate was 95% of their breakfast intake. Lunch was a spattering of cookies and brownies and party candy. Dinner was heart-shaped pizza and salad, but the kids didn't eat too much since they pounded suckers before Dad came home from work.</div>
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The 100th Day of School!!!!</div>
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We made it this far, and we're so much closer to summertime!</div>
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Our Simon has been counting the days this week until the 100th day of kindergarten, and I was excited to help him make his very first 100th Day of School t-shirt. I remember gluing pennies onto a shirt when I was in elementary school - which I loved, except for the heavy weight of the shirt afterwards. So, Simon and I came up with another idea that used weightless permanent fabric markers.</div>
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We dubbed it the "Dot Rod" shirt since we used 100 dots to trace a Hot Rod. (Car loving genes run thick in this family!) Our first step was to print out a hot rod picture with a sideways profile. Then we taped the car cut-out to his shirt.<br />
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I really wanted to let him do the dots on his own, but he kept meandering away from the car. . . so I held the fabric marker with him while he colored the dots. I was so proud of him! He counted all the way to 100 with only a couple mistakes. My smart, little Kindergartner!<br />
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After the outline was traced, Dad helped him trace the wheels. Then Simon drew on the flames and racing stripes. Instead of writing "Hot Wheels" onto the shirt, I added "School" to better match the 100th Day of School theme. Finally, Dad added the checkered flag and his name to make it an official racing "dot rod."</div>
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In honor of this wonderful school celebration, I'll include some of my favorite t-shirt ideas from across the web. If you have another favorite idea for 100th Day of School T-shirts, leave me a comment and tell me all about it! Enjoy!<br />
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My son sang this <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lUVgSWsyIE8">Pete the Cat song</a> for days! What a super cute idea from <a href="https://www.pinterest.com/pin/61924563602338231/">Pinterest</a>.<br />
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Kids could easily make this tally shirt from <a href="http://reallyquitelucky.blogspot.com/2012/02/100th-day-of-school.html">Really Quite Lucky</a></div>
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Use Puff Paint to make this cute Pin from <a href="https://www.pinterest.com/pin/AddzoTjNtNw3ySpxmFLgDXj44ArvntCrNteGbPn1m8fir4Bwni4f4zE/">Pinterest</a>.<br />
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I love the tie idea, which could use Skittles, Poms, or beads. From <a href="http://www.southshoremamas.com/?p=25304">South Short Mamas</a><br />
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Use stickers to display your kiddo's favorite sport! Easy idea (plus more!) from <a href="http://blog.darice.com/basics/100-days-of-school-shirt-ideas/">Live Craft Love.</a><br />
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Niccihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06448698297424255518noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5451056034978392117.post-92047049447817503642017-01-26T21:40:00.000-06:002017-01-26T21:40:34.724-06:00Truly Effective Self-Care<div style="text-align: center;">
Earlier this month I gave a presentation on self-care for the ladies at church. Before I left the house that night, my husband asked what topic I would discuss. When I answered self -care, he asked, "What in the world does that mean?" I laughed and tried to explain that self-care is like me-time, but not the selfish me-time, the effective-at-helping-you-feel-better-me-time. I think he was still a bit confused when I left the house. At church, my 15 minute presentation turned into a 40 minute presentation due to all the wonderful input from my audience. (I'm glad I have such wise friends!)<br />
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When you think of the word self-care, you probably think about the adjectives rejuvenating, refreshing, and confidence-building. Done correctly, self-care becomes a wonderful addition to your weekly routine: Frazzled mom turns into calm mom, stressed out spouse turns into collected spouse, etc. You get the picture. <i>But in order for self-care to actually be refreshing, you first need to determine the reason <b>why</b> you need to care for yourself.</i><br />
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Sally is crazy upset at her friend Joanna. Because Sally is upset, she finds she is more snarky with her family and is stomping around the house. She recalls hearing about the benefits of taking a nice, long bath. So after the kids go to bed, Sally takes a nice, long bath where she keeps stewing over why Joanna is a horrible friend. After her bath she still feels tense and angry - but why? The relaxing bath didn't help Sally feel better because she tried to self-care without self-understanding.<br />
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Truly effective self-care can only restore you to your "happy place" if you take the time to understand yourself. Honestly and genuinely reflect on yourself. Discover <i>what you are feeling deep down</i>. That's why self-care lists can be difficult - everybody needs a personalized self-care regimen. Self-care can include taking a long bath, calling a friend, or getting a pedicure, but remember that effective self-care restores you to your happy place. If that pedicure doesn't help you move towards joy, it's not really self-care, it's just something fun.<br />
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Self-care has one purpose - to care for your body: your physical body, your spirit, your nutrition, and/or your social life. Emotions are one powerful way to gain insight into your self-care needs. <i>If you find that you have migrated outside your happy place, then recognizing which emotion(s) pulled you away helps you discover the road back.</i> You don't need to build a house on Frustration Avenue - analyze yourself and then drive back to your happy home.<br />
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You find out that some friends had a lunch date - without you. As you analyze your anger, sadness, and hurt at being left out, you realize the root of every feeling is loneliness. You realize that you've been so busy the last couple weeks that you've missed out on social time. At this point, it's easy to create the road map to your happy place. You schedule some play dates, invite a family over for dinner, and bam! After a few days, you are back at your happy place!<br />
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Things keep going wrong throughout the day, and you feel stretched in every responsibility. Nothing seems to be operating at 100%, and it's sooo frustrating. After some deep thought, you realize you are simply doing too much, and you are exhausted. You need more sleep. You decide to turn off all your techie devices after dinnertime and go to sleep by 10:00pm. After a few days, you feel confident again that you can handle whatever life throws at you. Feelings of peace return. Hello happy place!<br />
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Self-care requires some thought and some action, but the reward is worth the effort!<br />
It's more than simple me-time; it's refreshing and restorative.<br />
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<b>How do you deeply analyze how you are feeling?</b><br />
<b>How do you figure out which emotional roads you are traveling down?</b><br />
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Try working through emotions on a piece of paper.<br />
Write down a simple sentence like, "I feel ________ because _________."<br />
Then write another sentence like, "And that bothers me because I __________."<br />
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"And that reminds me of _______ which hurts because _________."<br />
Keep digging deeper until an emotion becomes the base.<br />
"I'm not _____, I'm really just feeling ____________."<br />
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Once you have your root emotion, you know which road took you away from your happy place. Make a plan to return home, and follow through with your plan. Living life in your happy place is awesome. The more you come to understand yourself, the quicker you be able to catch yourself heading down the road of a negative emotion. The sooner you recognize that, the sooner you can return to your happy place. It takes time to develop this emotional intuition, and practicing effective self-care will strengthen your ability to <i>truly know yourself</i>.<br />
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Good luck with finding your personally effective self-care!<br />
Leave me a comment with what works for you.<br />
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Niccihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06448698297424255518noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5451056034978392117.post-23905663702685929532017-01-23T16:24:00.000-06:002017-01-23T16:37:42.901-06:00Why I Will Never March For Feminism<div style="text-align: center;">
Recent marches in our nation's Capitol and around the country this weekend really got under my skin. I originally wrote a rebuke to the modern day feminist movement, but I deleted it. My words were not kind, and my censure was scathingly long. In hindsight, I compressed my original thoughts down to this theme - I cannot support modern day feminists. <i>Historical figures have my gratitude but not the women who call themselves feminist leaders today.</i></div>
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The anger, the greed, the entitlement, the rage against everything - it deeply bothers me.</div>
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The berating, the swearing, the middle finger waving, the vulgarity - it offends me.</div>
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The praising of violence and destruction of property - it concerns me.</div>
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The constant comparing and offense taking over insignificant things - it annoys me.</div>
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Today's feminism is not about equality - it's about superiority.</div>
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Today's feminism is not about kindness - it's crude.</div>
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Today's feminists don't want to be on the same level as men - they want to squash men under their heels (or comfortable ballet flats.)</div>
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I would love to someday march for kindness, patience, and trust. The time for gentle strength has not passed. Women will always exert the ability to shape the world. I choose to identify with the influential religious leader who <a href="https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2000/04/womanhood-the-highest-place-of-honor?lang=eng&_r=1">explained womanhood this way</a>:</div>
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Because I am female, it is easier for me to <i>see the good</i> in the world, to trust my ability to <i>be an influence for good</i> in the world, and to teach my children <i>that good exists</i>!</div>
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are tough; we need women who are tender. There are enough women who are coarse;
we need women who are kind. There are enough women who are rude; we need women
who are refined. We have enough women of fame and fortune; we need more women
of faith. We have enough greed; we need more goodness. We have enough vanity;
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I choose finding joy in womanhood.</div>
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I will never march down the streets, screaming profanities, and hypocritically calling for peace while inciting outrage. I will not choose to be offended at every turn. I will not throw a toddler-like temper tantrum because I don't get my way. I hope to never be a nasty woman. Instead, I will find fulfillment in womanhood, with all its beautiful gifts of intuition, kindness, patience, sensitivity, and gentle persuasion.</div>
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The world is full of humans, and so it will never be perfect. But there are better ways to feed the hungry, empower the downtrodden, and raise our spirits than to embrace the prejudiced feminist movement of victim-hood. I can teach tolerance in my home. I can share my blessings with others. I can raise my children to show love and generosity. I can seek out the lovely aspects of our world and celebrate that goodness.</div>
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To modern day feminists, I implore - don't make me ashamed to be a woman. Your rage does not define me, and your anger will not fulfill you. Let it go, and come back to the table as compassionate adults, not whiny toddlers. That's how we save the world. That's true woman power.</div>
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Sometimes relationships become strained, and sometimes marriage is frustrating. Spouses get annoyed with each other and arguments happen too frequently. Unhealthy patterns can unravel a marriage, so it's vital to nurture loving habits with your spouse. A joyful marriage will have healthy habits supporting its core. Day to day interactions will be supportive and uplifting, while tense moments will be few and far between.</div>
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<b>1. Express appreciation for each other</b></div>
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Say "thank you," and explain something you are grateful the other person did every day. Every day! <i>The most common complaint I hear from my clients is not feeling appreciated in the marriage</i>. Tell your spouse you appreciate the meal, the folded laundry, the text messages, the diaper changes, the hugs, the well-serviced vehicle, the financial earnings, etc. Couples in joyful marriages don't seek out the bad. They see the good, and they express gratitude freely for little things.<br />
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With technology managing so many aspects of our lives these days, it's too easy to get stuck in a rut of staring at screens over faces. Instead, take some time to talk face-to-face. Turn off Netflix and listen about each other's day. Go for a walk. <a href="http://joyfulfamilylife.blogspot.com/2015/02/hopes-and-dreams-keep-marriage-strong.html">Discuss hopes and dreams together</a>. Pillow talk rather than fall asleep to the television. In my opinion, televisions do not belong in bedrooms, and really, any device that keeps you aloof from your spouse needs to disappear around bedtime. It's too easy to waste that last hour of the day playing Solitaire or checking Facebook or watching YouTube until you start sleepily blinking. <i>Tune into your spouse at nighttime, not the TV.</i></div>
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Couples in joyful marriages work together to finish tasks and projects. Either by "dividing and conquering" or completing everything together, these couples support each other through service. This balance looks different in each household, but <i>when balanced appropriately both spouses feel appreciated and valued</i>. It's not about the number of chores, it's about the management of the home.</div>
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To often people listen only long enough to respond. If your brain is formulating your next response while your spouse talks, then you are not truly listening. <a href="http://joyfulfamilylife.blogspot.com/search?q=listen+to+understand">Both husbands and wives need to feel heard and listened to</a>, and in a joyful marriage, that habit shows up every day. Listen to how the day went, what frustrations were felt, and which moments were exciting.<i> Just listen. Every day.</i></div>
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Humans need physical touch to thrive. <a href="https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/infant-touch/">Babies that don't receive physical touch suffer</a>, and marriages without loving touch suffer as well. Whether it's a hug, a kiss goodnight, a pat on the back, or cuddling on the couch, spouses need physical contact every day. Talk together about your individual needs for touch. Learn what you each prefer and dislike when it comes to physical contact. Then, make it a daily habit to reassure each other through loving touch. </div>
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Form routines around each other; doing so highlights the importance of each spouse. <i>Make your spouse feel worth your while!</i> This could be a habit to share a kiss before leaving for work, or chatting during your commutes, or sending a quick text at lunchtime. Leave time for each other in your daily busy-ness, and make time for each other every day.</div>
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Ending the day together builds the idea that your spouse is a source of comfort, relaxation, and peace. Sometimes work deadlines or sick kids will keep one spouse awake in another room, but try to make those nights rare. Crawling in bed together allows for extra quiet time. Pillow talk and cuddling nurtures emotional and physical bonding in a marriage. Plus, by choosing to end your day together, you show each other's importance over Hulu, work e-mails, or the X-Box.</div>
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Fulfilling marriages don't just happen, they are developed.</div>
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Something about the common phrase "marriages are hard work" rubs me the wrong way. It feels so burdensome. I also cringe when I hear teenagers say similar phrases about their future marriages, like, "It'll be hard but worth it." Having a relationship is not hard, but <i>overcoming selfishness is hard</i>. Marriage isn't hard work; <i>continual self-improvement and altruism is hard work</i>. The skills that build joyful marriages are the same skills that encourage a person to be kind, selfless, service-minded, encouraging, and listen deeply.</div>
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I hope this checklist helps you nurture a more joyful marriage. As both spouses work towards that goal, with open hearts, you will re-discover that magic that brought you together. Plus, you'll have the strength to continue down a fulfilling and joyful road.</div>
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Niccihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06448698297424255518noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5451056034978392117.post-10949973110830782502017-01-03T16:54:00.000-06:002017-01-03T16:54:08.346-06:00Goals and Money Saving Tips for the New Year<div style="text-align: center;">
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One year over, and a new year just beginning. Hello 2017!</div>
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With the start of a new year, people think about goals and fresh starts. I don't have new goals per se, but I do want to complete leftover goals from last year. Life is a work in progress, and I hope I am continually improving as I go. Since January has finally arrived, I can nudge myself to lose the last remaining pounds of baby weight and stop eating so much holiday food (once my stocking candy is finally eaten and gone. . .) I'm also excited to get back to the gym now that my baby is old enough for childcare programs while I exercise at the gym. </div>
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Weight goals are super common in January, but don't forget about financial goals too! Last month, I was introduced to the company <a href="https://www.earnest.com/">Earnest</a>, and they got me thinking about financial saving and security. Their company mission is to not only save money but to also teach the importance of knowing where your money is, how you spend it, and what your debt looks like. Adults old and young can benefit from a financial check-up to make sure you're on a sustainable path. Plus, if you are a recent graduate, take comfort in knowing that you can <a href="https://www.earnest.com/refinance-student-loans">refinance student loans</a> with Earnest and save over $20k!</div>
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I personalized my Money Saving Challenge plan with Earnest, which I'll share below.</div>
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I often tell my clients to tape their goal chart to a mirror or dresser, somewhere highly visible. Frequently seeing your goals helps channel your thoughts in that direction, making it easier to change unwanted habits. This first quarter, my goal is to keep healthy snacks in my purse and on my kitchen counter. The more I eat healthy, the more my body will crave healthy, right? These last 10 pounds of baby weight have gotta go! The same principle applies to financial goals. Once saving money becomes a habit, it's easier to save. Learning to curb spending desires is similar to curbing junk food cravings - it takes time and effort. You can even tape a picture of the "treat" you are saving for to your own mirror. </div>
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Niccihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06448698297424255518noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5451056034978392117.post-65871762996380640742016-12-28T13:19:00.000-06:002016-12-28T15:19:19.857-06:00Christmas 2016<div style="text-align: center;">
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This year we really wanted to celebrate the meaning of Christmas. Our little ones were at the perfect age to understand (and anticipate) Santa Claus, and we were excited for them! But we also wanted them to learn young about giving and helping others feel loved. We frequently told them that Santa brings us gifts because he loves us, and we give gifts to others because we love them. Tying it all together, we emphasized that wise men brought gifts to baby Jesus because they loved Him, and He loves us too.</div>
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We bought small gifts to distribute each day before Christmas, and the kids took turns picking who needed to feel loved that day. After school we took a gift to a friend, a teacher, a fellow church-goer, or a neighbor. We hoped a small token of love would brighten the day of those we visited.</div>
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I also took the three older kids to the Dollar Store, one at a time, so they could pick out sibling gifts. I was surprised how quickly they picked out something their brother and sisters would actually like. Of course they wanted to get presents for themselves too, but at least they were happy to choose a gift and wrap it for their family members.</div>
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Then, a few days before Christmas, I learned about a family in need. A single mother had just lost her job, and her three children didn't have any presents yet. We gathered up some gently used toys from our house and called upon some other families with kids the same age. With their help, we filled two giant bags of nice toys for this family. On Christmas Eve we drove to their house late at night to drop off the surprise presents. Simon, our five year old, commented, "Mom, it's like we're Santa Elves!" Helping that family made my heart beam, and I hope our kids continue to help people as they get older. It's easy for kids to get over-excited about "receiving" at Christmastime, and at their young age, it's expected. But at they mature, I really hope they remember the fun of giving.</div>
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Finally Christmas morning came!!!</div>
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I was awake before the kids and so anxious for them to experience a magical morning. When everyone finally woke up and realized their were toys in the living room, the fun started! We took turns with presents, gave hugs for our gifts, and enjoyed family time. Church started at 1:00pm, so we had plenty of time to play and bake yummy food together.</div>
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Niccihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06448698297424255518noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5451056034978392117.post-15379762422733848422016-12-17T22:34:00.000-06:002017-02-25T17:59:07.737-06:00Gift Ideas based on the 5 Love Languages<div style="text-align: center;">
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I love watching the Sketch Comedy show "Studio C."</div>
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If you haven't already found their amazingness on YouTube, <a href="https://www.youtube.com/user/BYUTelevision">visit their channel</a>. Not only are the funny, but their content is always family friendly. Love, love, love Studio C!</div>
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Inspired by one of their Christmas sketches about <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4Pr42yeJGzc">Santa Claus basing gifts on the 5 Love Languages</a>, I thought I'd give it a go too. Hopefully, my list comes across more heartfelt than hilarious, but depending upon your gift recipient's love language, that's to be determined. Any links I share were ones I randomly found as I created the lists. All ideas are my own, no sponsored links. Enjoy!</div>
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As a reminder, Chapman's love languages are: Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Quality Time, Physical Touch, and Receiving Gifts. If you show love to others by speaking their preferred love language, you'll hit a deeper note in their hearts. You can even take a quiz to <a href="http://www.5lovelanguages.com/profile/">learn your own love language (and guess at theirs)</a>. And now for my list of gift ideas, based on your loved one's Love Language:<br />
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2. Purchase some massage oil and give her a massage yourself</div>
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3. Buy a set of <a href="https://www.etsy.com/listing/245724371/couples-mitten-for-two-hand-knit-smitten?ref=listing-shop-header-0">couple glove</a>s and go for walks often</div>
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4. Buy a nice hairbrush, and brush her hair for her</div>
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5. Learn how to cut men's hair, and become his own stylist</div>
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6. Surprise her with a pedicure tub and give her pedicures</div>
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7. Gift a two person blanket - <a href="http://wearableblankets.co.uk/double-slanket/">the Double Slanket</a>!</div>
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8. Buy <a href="https://cutecircuit.com/the-hug-shirt/">a Hug Shirt</a> that lets you actually feel a hug from the other person when you wear the shirt. Great for long-distance or military couples.</div>
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9. Create the famous toy car map as a back-rub t-shirt, like <a href="https://www.etsy.com/listing/168557901/m-play-mat-shirt-for-mom-christmas-gift?utm_campaign=shopping_us_bkykid_sfc_osa&utm_medium=cpc&utm_source=google&utm_custom1=0&utm_content=7528086&gclid=CjwKEAiA4dPCBRCM4dqhlv2R1R8SJABom9pHTgXMnvbvWFP4dYTpMU1puKJgLVP_lFJN8Xj8GQP-bRoCYjXw_wcB">this one on Etsy</a>.</div>
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10. Learn reflexology and practice your skills with soothing touch</div>
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Enjoy! And Merry Christmas to everyone!<br />
May your gifts be well-thought out and heartfelt, and may your recipients gift you loving presents too. Show your love to them in the way they need it most. "Put a little love in your heart!"<br />
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Earlier this week I had the freedom to wander and shop for two amazing hours. Thank you to my fantastic husband for keeping all four kids at home! And thank you <a href="http://www.kohls.com/">Kohls</a> for being open until midnight during the holiday season! I picked out Christmas gifts, stocking stuffers, and some white elephant gifts too. Speaking of white elephant gifts, there are some totally random gifts out there. So, I had the idea to create a funny gift guide and show you what kinds of randomness you can buy online! <span style="font-size: x-small;">Bytheway, these are not sponsored posts, just my own sharing.</span></div>
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<b>1.</b> Check out the "<a href="http://ponyupdaddy.com/">Pony Up Daddy</a>" saddle toy.<br />
Pony rides have never been easier for kids or parents. This toy is super cute!<br />
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<b>2.</b> If a pretend pony ride isn't enough for your kids, or if your back can't handle the ride, check out this ride-on elephant! <a href="http://www.ufree-horse.com/index.htm">U-Free</a> creates ride-on toys that actually move like animals, meaning you feel like you are actually riding a horse, a zebra, a reindeer, or even an elephant!<br />
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<b>3. </b>Kids love <a href="http://smencils.com/holiday-smencils/">Smencils</a>! These scented pencils are sure to brighten up your stocking stuffing supply. My son has the candy cane scented one, and he cherishes it. They have pencil scents for the entire year as well if you are looking beyond the holiday.<br />
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<b>4. </b>And while you're thinking about pencils, here's another random gift - <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Pencil-Sharpener-Mustache-Finger-Novelty/dp/B01LYJP9PU/ref=sr_1_40?ie=UTF8&qid=1481223063&sr=8-40&keywords=draw+noses">a nose shaped pencil sharpener</a>! Pick yourself a winning booger, I mean present.<br />
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<b>5.</b> Continuing the random nose-y train of thought, here's another random gift found on Etsy. If you're the type of driver that picks and flicks, then this <a href="https://www.etsy.com/listing/233275214/flying-boogers-window-decal-sticker?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=booger&ref=sr_gallery_4">Beware of Flying Boogers sign</a> is for you. Attach it to your car, and consider the world warned.</div>
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<b>6.</b> If scents impress you, then you must love good eats. And if you love food, then your kids need their very own <a href="http://www.uncommongoods.com/product/taco-truck-playhouse">Taco Truck Playhouse</a>. #raiseemright #seriously </div>
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<b>7.</b> If you need a quirky gift for your spouse, look at this awesome Etsy shop. She has so many cute couple pillows - like this <a href="https://www.etsy.com/listing/475837502/husband-gift-boyfriend-gift-fiance-gift?ref=shop_home_active_3">Superman and Wonderwoman set</a>. There are pillowcases for couples that like fishing, music, pets, and more.<br />
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<b>8.</b> Here's another gift for the lucky online couple that made it past the first date. Tinder for the win! Celebrate your swipe right success with this <a href="https://www.etsy.com/listing/251305282/swiped-me-off-my-feet-online-dating?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=online%20dating&ref=sr_gallery_18">cute mug</a> from Andreas Emporium.<br />
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<b>9.</b> As I typed this list, my two year old was crying about wanting yogurt, not even 10 seconds after she claimed she was full and put her breakfast bowl in the sink. A quick Google seaarch lead me to a random book all parents can relate to: the <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Reasons-Kid-Crying-Greg-Pembroke/dp/0804139830/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=">Reasons My Kid is Crying book</a>. Yep - there is actually a book filled with pictures of the funny reasons kid well up in tears.<br />
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<b>10.</b> Finally, <a href="https://adsoftheworld.com/media/dm/mcdonalds_fry_gloves">fry gloves</a>. Best white elephant present this year. You need some.<br />
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Earlier this year I gave a presentation to a group of
teenagers. After deliberating the best way to teach them how to communicate, I
decided to take an alternate route by teaching them how to listen. After all,
if you listen ineffectively, you’ll communicate ineffectively. The quote “we have two ears and one mouth for a wise purpose”
comes to mind – because it’s true! We <i>should</i> spend more time hearing others than running our own mouths. Truly listening (which I’ll explain further down
this post as <i>hearing</i>) can bind broken hearts, solve problems, and keep relationships
strong. The teenagers at my presentation learned the difference between hearing
and listening, and I hope you can learn that skill after reading this blog post
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Merely Listening</h4>
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“Are you even listening to me?”</div>
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How often do you hear these phrases in your relationships?
Either a task was not completed, a response was off-base, or a message was not
received correctly when these phrases are uttered. You see, listening is simply
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Think of the childhood game
of Telephone, where someone tries to send a message down a row of giggling
kids. Usually the message is altered in some way before it reaches the end of
the line, and the initial message of “Hi, my name is Nicci, and I really love to
dance in the rain,” becomes the awkward “Hi, Mamie, Nicci really wants to see acid
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The reason the Telephone game is famous for hilariously failing
is because <i>people always listen, but they seldom hear</i>. I define hearing as “listening
with the intent to understand.” Hearing is the conscious choice to direct your attention
to a noise. Merely listening with the head bobble of “uh-huh” while our kids chatter on about dinosaurs and rocket ships is unhelpful communication. Hearing
is more involved. Hearing means you actually take note of the dinosaur species, plus you know which planet the rockets are flying to visit. See
the difference? Hearing also means the cell phones are put away, the TV is
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It's that time of year when we reflect on the things we're grateful to have. There is beauty all around us, and making a gratitude list helps me realize all the countless ways I have been very blessed. My wise cousin, Cambri, also wrote on her blog about <a href="http://soshesimplified.com/?p=189">keeping a "beauty book."</a> For people that fight against anxiety, simply focusing on the present beauties around you can be more helpful than listing out blessings. Whichever method works to lift your spirits, I hope you have time this Thanksgiving season to refresh your soul (and your tummies!)</div>
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1. My patient and devoted husband. I really can't brag about him enough, and I'm very lucky.</div>
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2. My kids' hugs and smiles and kisses and drawings and the flowers they pick from the yard for me.</div>
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3. Air conditioning and indoor heating.</div>
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4. Indoor plumbing.</div>
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5. Basically all the home conveniences we have in the 21st century!</div>
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6. A genealogy line that kept journals. I love reading about their joys and struggles. I love finding pictures of their families and even their homes from centuries ago. There's a sense of pride and comfort in feeling connected to ages past.</div>
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7. Knowing that there is a God in Heaven, and He loves us. And His son, Jesus Christ, made it possible for us to find an eternal happiness and live in Heaven again someday. My soul rejoices.</div>
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8. Friends that love me (on my no-makeup days, on my hyper days, on my quiet days, on my supermom days, and my lazy days).</div>
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9. A very patient mother and father. Thanks Mom and Dad.</div>
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10. Soft beds and pillows. Nap time is awesome.</div>
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Bonus: homemade pumpkin pie!!</div>
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What are you thankful for? And how do you refresh your spirit?</div>
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Happy Thanksgiving everyone!</div>
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Niccihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06448698297424255518noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5451056034978392117.post-27056495173697799212016-11-14T22:20:00.001-06:002016-11-14T22:48:37.243-06:00Self-Care with a Plantable Wish Kit<div style="text-align: center;">
Recently, my Dad has begun gardening. He dug out a section of the fence and tilled the soil for carrots, tomatoes, peppers, and more. My mom jokes that one of his new mottos is, "Gardening is cheaper than therapy, and you get tomatoes." Which is funny considering his daughter is a therapist. . .</div>
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I've written before about the <a href="http://joyfulfamilylife.blogspot.com/2015/07/grow-stronger-family_17.html">family benefits to gardening</a>, but there are personal benefits too! For example, I believe that <a href="http://joyfulfamilylife.blogspot.com/2015/01/looking-ahead.html">g</a><a href="http://joyfulfamilylife.blogspot.com/2015/01/looking-ahead.html">ardening helps me develop perspective and patience</a>. Whether your preference is flowers, fruits, or vegetables, nurturing a garden is a form of self-care.</div>
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Self-care frequently comes up in my counseling sessions, and together my clients and I analyze the time they spend nurturing their own souls. A sense of fulfilling self-care looks different for everyone: it could be a relaxing bath once a week, or playing golf once a month, or disconnecting from electronics everyday for half an hour. It's self-care, and it's personal.</div>
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If you need help in the self-care department of your life, visit <a href="http://www.uncommongoods.com/gifts/christmas/christmas-gifts">UnCommonGoods</a>, the online store with amazing <a href="http://www.uncommongoods.com/sets/top-rated-gifts">hand-crafted and unique gifts</a>. I recommend the <a href="http://www.uncommongoods.com/product/plantable-wish-cards">Self Growth Wish Kit</a> from BloomIn. This self-care kit allows you to write a wish or burden or goal down on seed paper and then watch it grow! This idea is simple, but the effects can be profound.</div>
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Metaphors are a powerful form of human communication, for children and adults. Sometimes emotions are easier to manage with a physical outlet. For example, for someone that struggles with anxiety, cleaning the house is a tangible substitute for internal chaos. A clean home has visible results you can see and touch, whereas emotional anxiety is more complex to soothe.</div>
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That's why I love the idea of these <a href="http://www.uncommongoods.com/product/plantable-wish-cards">plantable wish seeds</a>! They are the perfect metaphor for growth and change over time. As you nurture the seeds, you are symbolically caring for your desire on the card. This self-care wish kit would be a <a href="http://www.uncommongoods.com/gifts/christmas/stocking-stuffers">great stocking stuffer</a> for your insightful teenagers or your best friend. Wishes can bloom true!</div>
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On one card, I wrote that I want to be a better mom: more creative, more patient, and more joyful. As I water the seeds I can ask myself, did I listen to my children today? Did I color with them? Did I dance around the room with them? What do I need to do before bedtime to show them love? As I diligent nurture my goal, I will see the fulfillment grow before my eyes as a small garden of flowers. Hopefully I will also see myself as a better Mom because of my new behaviors.</div>
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The wish kit also encourages you to tell others about your seed card. This allows them to help facilitate your growth and change too. Just like a helpful neighbor waters your lawn during vacation, a helpful friend can visibly "check-in" on your growth process.</div>
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UnCommonGoods carries many other <a href="http://www.uncommongoods.com/gifts/christmas/christmas-gifts">unique gifts for birthdays and Christmastime</a>. Their artisan crafted items are frequently made in the USA, and UnCommonGoods donates to charities, such as <a href="http://www.reachoutandread.org/">Reach Out & Read</a>, which benefits young children's literacy skills. You can feel good about supporting UnCommonGoods. Visit their website to find the perfect gift for yourself or someone you love.<br />
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Niccihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06448698297424255518noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5451056034978392117.post-84686230206709978792016-11-14T16:14:00.000-06:002017-03-01T15:51:11.558-06:00Decorating with a Porch Wall<div style="text-align: center;">
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Every house has a front door, but not every house has a door that is decorate-able. Our front door has a metal screen door, so hanging things on the outside is hard. For years I've hung wreaths on the actual wooden door, but they just get squished up against the screen when the door closes. Bummer. Pinterest also makes me a crave a front porch that can hold pumpkins or hay bales or miniature Christmas trees. But our porch is a small area just in front of the door. So again, my house and my decorating dreams struggle to co-exist. #PinterestProblems</div>
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Last month I imagined a solution - <a href="http://joyfulfamilylife.blogspot.com/2016/09/ready-for-crafty-weekend-project.html">I needed a porch wall</a>!</div>
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If I could utilize the giant brick wall adjacent to my front door, then I would have a decorating space! I could hang pictures and signs and finally have that seasonal decorating space I'd hoped for. I stained a large piece of lumber to match our front door, added 3 coats of spar varnish, and added the knobs. FYI: a trip to Hobby Lobby with a newborn, a 1 year old, and a 3 year old is rough, but I got my knobs. When it was finally finished I was so excited to show Johnny! I love showing off the things I create with his power tools. (Although he helped me drill into the brick to hang the board. I wasn't brave enough to try that.)</div>
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Thus, I give you my "porch wall."</div>
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I love that I can finally show seasonal cuteness outside, and it's not smashed by the screen door.</div>
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Remember when <a href="http://joyfulfamilylife.blogspot.com/2016/09/ready-for-crafty-weekend-project.html">I was feeling crafty</a> a few months ago?</div>
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Here's the pumpkin sign I created. I love the colors in my pumpkin!</div>
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Fall decorating stirs up feelings of gratitude in my heart. I'm glad I had this project finished in time for Halloween and Thanksgiving. Plus, how fun will it be to show more outdoor Christmas spirit next month? So fun! Yea!!</div>
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I'd like to share three amazing gift ideas for a family dear to your heart. These ideas come from <a href="http://www.uncommongoods.com/gifts/christmas/christmas-gifts">UnCommonGoods</a>, and they are uniquely special items. If you haven't heard of UnCommonGoods, take some time this holiday season to browse their selection of artisan crafted gifts.</div>
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If the family you are purchasing a gift for loves to play games together, check out this amazing <a href="http://www.uncommongoods.com/product/random-acts-of-kindness-kits">board game that encourages random acts of kindness</a> and spreads that goodness all over the world with Boom Boom Cards! The description at UnCommonGoods sums this game up perfectly, "The coolest thing about Boom Boom! cards is that you can create a chain reaction of covert kindness that could theoretically travel around the world." As you complete an act of kindness, you give the card away to a friend. Hopefully that friend also completes the challenge because the card has a tracking code, which allows you to read stories about every act of service that specific card inspires. Awesome, right? What a great way to teach a family about service and its positive impact in the lives of other people.</div>
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As "agents of altruism," Johnny and I have started our game board. Our first challenge is already underway, and I'm excited to then give our Boom Boom card to another family. My life has been positively impacted by small acts of service, and I'm excited to be a part of that goodness for someone else. Reading their stories on the online tracker will be humbling and inspiring. By ordering the <a href="http://www.uncommongoods.com/product/random-acts-of-kindness-kits">Random Acts of Kindness kit</a> as a Christmas gift, you're essentially saying, "<i>Goodness</i> to all, and to all a <i>good</i> night!"</div>
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If your you need a gift for a family that enjoys conversations together, consider <a href="http://www.uncommongoods.com/product/rememory-game">the ReMemory game</a> from Storymatic, available at <a href="http://www.uncommongoods.com/gifts/christmas/christmas-gifts">UnCommonGoods</a>. Rememory is a deck of cards designed to elicit memories from each player. There are three decks of cards, each with random word prompts. A player draws three cards and proceeds to tell a memory based on those words. Last weekend, my husband and I went camping with his brother's family. After the kids finally went to sleep in the tent, the adults played Rememory around the campfire. I enjoyed hearing about my sister-in-law's childhood in Alaska and her adventures as a flight attendant. I learned more about my husband's relationship with his grandparents. I talked about my summer jobs as a door-to-door salesman and travels in college. </div>
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The game does allow for customized rules, such as guessing someone's memory. You can also use the cards alone in order to expand your journal writing. However you play the game, there is a sense of grounding that's both peaceful and fun at the same time. It's just a cool game! These cards would be the perfect <a href="http://www.uncommongoods.com/product/rememory-game">family reunion game</a>. They'd also be helpful when <a href="http://www.uncommongoods.com/product/rememory-game">interviewing grandparents</a>. Reminisce with Rememory.</div>
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As Thanksgiving inches closer, the word gratitude becomes a common part of everyone's vocabulary. Once a year it's the season of gratefulness, and our lives are enriched by focusing on the blessings we enjoy. But, what if something existed that made gratitude a part of our life all year long? What if that focus on gratitude came in a cute little box with cards and a gratitude journal? Such a gift does exist, and it's called "<a href="http://www.uncommongoods.com/product/a-year-of-gratitude">A Year of Gratitude</a>." Imagine the bonding that would happen as the family decides who to send a card to each week.</div>
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The Year of Gratitude encourages a person (or family) to express thanks for the quiet moments of joy experienced every week. Those life enriching moments may come from a friend at school, a co-worker, a mailman, or a grocery store clerk. As you and your family begin to appreciate the positive impact left on your hearts, then "deep heartfelt gratitude seems the only appropriate reply." This <a href="http://www.uncommongoods.com/product/a-year-of-gratitude">gratitude activity kit</a> includes 52 cards (one for each week of the year) and a journal where you can document your journey of "ever-increasing joy and wonder." The journal offers advice for writing genuine thank you notes, and allows you to document whom you've mailed cards to so you can choose new people every week. I have officially logged my first thank you card, and I'm excited to begin a weekly tradition of expressing thanks.</div>
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I am grateful that UnCommonGoods offers such <a href="http://www.uncommongoods.com/gifts/christmas/christmas-gifts">unique Christmas gifts</a> from talented artisans in a variety of categories. Plus, many of their products are handcrafted with an innovative dedication to eco-friendly design. For example, the Boom Boom card game is made with recycled materials! UnCommonGoods also spreads "good" around the world through charitable giving to organizations like <a href="http://www.americanforests.org/">American Forests</a> and the <a href="https://www.rescue.org/">International Rescue Committee</a>. Ordering family Christmas gifts from UnCommonGoods ensures you are supporting artisans and spreading Christmas cheer to more people in need.</div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">Disclosure: I received my choice of items for review purposes from UnCommonGoods in exchange for this review. My opinions are my own and were not influenced by the company in any way.</span></div>
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Growing up, my family always crammed onto the photo table at WalMart or JCPenney for family pictures. It was an odd balance game of trying to get everyone into the picture without knocking the little kids off the table. Plus, my siblings and I probably had arguments about which cool background to display in the photo. If I remember correctly, I usually wanted the scenic fake tree photo and my brothers liked the patterned background.</div>
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Luckily, most photographers do outdoor photos now, which is great for families. (And I get my tree backgrounds with actual, real-live trees!) There is room for families to spread out and natural lighting. I love photography's shift away from studio work. To celebrate becoming a family of six, we drove up to North Austin to take some outdoor photos with my talented friend, Victoria. A couple months ago, she held a contest to win a photo-shoot, and we were the lucky winners! Find Victoria <a href="https://www.facebook.com/victoriaannephotographyroundrock/?fref=ts">on Facebook here</a> or visit the official website for <a href="http://www.victoriaannephoto.com/">Victoria Anne Photography here</a>.</div>
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This was our favorite photo - as Victoria said, "This sums up your life right now." When you have four kids ages five and under, there is a healthy amount of crying, boogers, and not-listening. But even in our crazy moments, Johnny and I love our kiddos. After the tantrums come the hugs, and after the screams come the "I love you Moms." And then everything feels okay again.</div>
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With four kids ages 5 and under, we know about the wiggles.<br />
Kids wiggle and squirm and poke and play - which is great if the family is chilling at home, but not so great in quiet places like church, the doctor's office, or assemblies. Sometimes a little extra quiet time at home can be appreciated too! So, if you need <a href="http://www.uncommongoods.com/gifts/christmas/christmas-gifts">gift ideas for hyper kids</a> that keep their hands busy (and off each other) I have two suggestions for you from <a href="http://www.uncommongoods.com/">UnCommonGoods</a>: one for home and one for outings.<br />
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For wiggly kids at home, check out this <a href="http://www.uncommongoods.com/product/butter-churner">amazing homemade butter churner</a>. Simply churning your own butter in less than 20 minutes is cool enough, but this device works with hyper kids too! Our three oldest kids kept taking turns churning the butter because they loved it so much. We had to supervise the 2 year old closely so she didn't tip the jar over, but the older kids could use it just fine. Plus, they get wiggles out cranking the gears! The churner is well made, with sturdy handles and seals. The device is super easy to clean and fits nicely in the cupboard for storage.<br />
On our first attempt to make butter, we tried standard whipping cream, which sadly turned into whipped cream. Fail. But we were successful on the second try using <i>heavy</i> whipping cream. How delicious! Our homemade butter tasted exactly like our store-bought butter, but with the self-pride of having done it ourselves. I hope to make butter churning a regular activity to get the wiggles out for our kiddos. The butter churner also comes with recipes for flavored butters. Yum!<br />
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For wiggly kids out and about, <a href="http://www.uncommongoods.com/">UnCommonGoods</a> also sells <a href="http://www.uncommongoods.com/product/liquid-glass-thinking-putty">Thinking Putty</a>. My older brother introduced me to Thinking Putty this summer. This special putty is perfect for fidgety kid hands (and adult hands). You can squish it, tear it, mold it, do practically anything with it, and then put it back into the carton when you're done. It'll melt back into putty. Our kids have played with Thinking Putty during church the last two weeks, and it has been so helpful in maintaining quiet reverence. Instead of getting bored and poking each other, the kids can tear and poke the putty! One carton was enough to keep the hands of three hyper kids busy, plus it is clearly colored so I didn't have to worry about stains on clothes or furniture. <a href="http://www.uncommongoods.com/product/liquid-glass-thinking-putty">This amazing putty</a> doesn't lose its stick, and it doesn't leave goo all over your hands. I don't have to worry about the kids touching me and gooing me up after play time. It's a perfect gift for hyper kids and their parents.<br />
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If you haven't browsed their website before, it's definitely worth your time. UnCommonGoods picks their merchandise from skilled and creative artisans, with a flair for innovative and sustainable products. You can view their Christmas gift guide <a href="http://www.uncommongoods.com/gifts/christmas/christmas-gifts">here</a> and choose the perfect artisan gift for your loved one. They even have categories to help you narrow your search, such as <a href="http://www.uncommongoods.com/for-kids/toys-games?view=all">unique learning toys for kids</a> and <a href="http://www.uncommongoods.com/for-kids/by-age/baby-gifts-0-2-years">customizable baby items</a>. There are so many cute items to choose from!<br />
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Depending on the activity and wiggly level of your kids, you're bound to find something amazing from UnCommonGoods. Plus, by supporting small business artisans, you're ensuring a future for quality and creative items, many of which are made here in the USA. Go you! Not only does UnCommonGoods support artisans, but they donate to multiple charities, including <a href="http://www.reachoutandread.org/">Reach Out & Read</a>. You can feel confident that your gifts help spread cheer around the world.<br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">Disclaimer: I received my choice of items from UnCommonGoods at no cost in exchange for this review, but all opinions are my own and were not influenced by the company.</span><br />
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We're a family who loves the University of Texas.</div>
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This summer, our daughter Grace learned how to make her hands into the Hook 'Em sign, and she was so excited to show everyone at my family reunion. Everyone "oohed" and "aaaahed" at her cuteness, except for Uncle Tommy. Apparently my younger brother is Red Raiders fan. While Grace was flashing her Hook 'Ems, he kept trying to get her to make Tech's sign. But to no avail. She is forever a Longhorns fan. #HookEm</div>
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UT plays Tech this weekend - Go Longhorns! Go, fight, win!<br />
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Niccihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06448698297424255518noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5451056034978392117.post-89756541806796942552016-10-27T17:21:00.000-05:002017-02-25T18:00:48.933-06:00Don't Get Fooled Into the Blame Game<div style="text-align: center;">
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"I'm done apologizing."</div>
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"The world doesn't revolve around her. She needs to get over it."</div>
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"I've already apologized; I'm not going to do it again."</div>
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I've written about this topic before as it relates to<a href="http://joyfulfamilylife.blogspot.com/2016/06/expectations-and-healthy-communication.html"> couples</a><a href="http://joyfulfamilylife.blogspot.com/2016/06/expectations-and-healthy-communication.html"> counseling</a>, but it applies to so many areas of life. Many years ago I was involved in a friendship struggle. Futile drama. As the silent treatment from this other lady lasted for months, I started to blame her for life's inconveniences. It got so bad that I even suspected that she was paying a neighborhood kid to knock on the nursery window and wake up my baby in the middle of the night. Crazy? Yes. I was being over-dramatic. But I was so hurt by her actions from years past that it was too easy in my sleep-deprived, new mom mind to blame her somehow. Blame is easy, and it reduces self-responsibility. That is what makes blame so dangerous.<br />
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In friendships and families, the blame game can be even more destructive. It's too easy to think how advice can apply to <i>other people</i> - blaming them instead of seeing the big picture. How often have we listened to a sermon at church and thought, "I hope Bobby is listening to this talk. He totally needs this advice" instead of applying the words <i>to ourselves</i>?<br />
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<b>Blame is "deceitfully liberating."</b><br />
Blame allows you a precarious freedom.<br />
Blame is a counterfeit feeling of release.<br />
It's all the other person's fault, <i>right?</i><br />
You can wash your hands of it, because there's nothing more you can do, <i>right?</i><br />
The frustration you feel is not due to your own guilt, <i>right?</i><br />
It's clearly the result of the other person's fault, <i>right?</i><br />
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Blaming others merely stokes your ability to rationalize your fault away, especially in regards to relationships! Friendships, co-worker relationships, neighborhood ties, familial bonds - they all require more than one person. Relationships are improved and deteriorated <i>by both sides.</i><br />
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Does that mean you can blame them for the relationship turning sour? Not really. You played a role in the big picture too. Your deeds along the way built up to this moment.</div>
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But you can let go of blame. You can learn to love.<br />
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Years ago, as a waitress, there was a fellow waiter that I despised. I hated working shifts with Jorrell. One day, we had a fight across the restaurant, and I ended up in tears. My wise manager explained to me that just because Jorrell did things differently, it didn't mean either of us was wrong or right. We simply completed our staff chores differently. The manager encouraged us both to see the good in each other. A few months later, Jorrell moved away, and I was happy. We had only learned to tolerate each other. As luck would have it, one year later Jorrell came back to the restaurant. Something had changed, and we got along great! We even joked with each other about our rocky past. It seemed as if time allowed us both to see the positive sides of each other. I really enjoyed working with Jorrell this time. I learned to love his talents and quirks.<br />
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Love can eventually overcome blame, but it takes time.<br />
1. First, you have to replace the blame with self-awareness. Own your part of the problem in relationships. Own up to your mistakes.<br />
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2. Apologize. <a href="http://joyfulfamilylife.blogspot.com/2015/07/how-to-apologize-to-friends-and-repair.html">But know that an apology is more than saying, "I'm sorry." </a>There are lots of ways to ruin an apology by casting unapologetic blame, such as apologizing that the person “feels” a certain way. The common statement, "I'm sorry you feel angry," is not an apology. <i>It is actually kind of a mockery.</i> He or she is allowed to have feelings. Instead, apologize for your own behavior. Try not to use an apology as a way to justify yourself. Sending a note that further explains why "you are right, and they are wrong" is unhelpful. Remember, the apology should come from love - not justification.<br />
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Don't get fooled into playing the Blame Game.<br />
If blame has disrupted your relationships, open your heart. Listen to the other party. Hear their heartbreak. Apologize where you can, and show love. Overcome blame with love and self-awareness. Allow other people to heal on their own timeline.<br />
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Again, please don't finish reading this post thinking, "Sally needs to read this so she'll get over our disagreement." Apply these words to yourself, and enjoy more vibrant loving relationships.<br />
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Niccihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06448698297424255518noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5451056034978392117.post-13389171557808322262016-10-22T16:21:00.000-05:002016-10-22T16:21:48.678-05:00Losing the Baby Weight<div style="text-align: center;">
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When my kiddo is soundly sleeping in my arms, I feel like the best mom ever. Baby snuggles are the best. And those first smiles - most precious moments in the world!</div>
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Babies are pretty amazing.</div>
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Pregnancy.</div>
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Rather, the pregnancy weight.</div>
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Those of you who know me in real life would probably roll your eyes at me with the amount of weight I gained in my fourth pregnancy. I know, I know, I was lucky to only gain 25 pounds the fourth time. I've been lucky enough to gain less weight with each successive pregnancy; usually women gain more weight each time. Please don't assume that I'm bragging about the poundage. I've been on the opposite end of the spectrum as well. I gained 50 pounds in my first pregnancy, more than any of the other first-time mommies in my social circle. I didn't lose that weight through breastfeeding either. It was a long nine months before I finally lost the baby weight.</div>
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When it comes to baby weight, most medical professionals would agree that it's important to lose some (if not all) of the extra weight. Obesity is a growing challenge in America. However, medical professionals disagree on how quickly those pounds need to come off. Some recommend losing the weight within a few months through diet and exercise. Some suggest taking an entire year to slowly lose the weight. Oftentimes the mantra is, "It took nine months to gain the weight, it'll take nine months to lose the weight."</div>
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As a counselor, a friend, and a mom, I see women struggle with things other than the number on the scale. Self-esteem. Self-confidence. Self-image. Most women just want to feel good about their bodies after childbirth. Moms not only sacrifice their time and emotions to raise children, they sacrifice their very bodies. Our skin bears stretch marks, our abdominal muscles flab, our chests never look the same again. Even our feet can permanently change! The number on the scale may get down to your wedding day weight, but your wedding dress may still not fit because your rib-cage expanded during pregnancy.</div>
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<i>Fight to feel good in your new skin.</i></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">What makes you feel beautiful?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Over the last few weeks, when did you feel the most confident in yourself?</span></div>
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Sometimes, even as you fight to feel good, your results will not be "perfect." I know amazing moms who can't seem to lose every pound of baby weight despite their conscious eating and exercising. Sometimes abdominal muscles stay separated. Sometimes chest sizes shrink even more. Sometimes scar lines don't fade but remain bright purple. We cannot control the unexpected, but we can control whether or not we try to reach our goals. <i>If you have tried honestly and sincerely, than you have not failed. </i>Don't withhold kindness from yourself. Don't withhold smiles from yourself. Do your best, and love your effort.</div>
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Remind yourself about your inner strength and beauty. Tell yourself compliments. Work on your goals for physical and mental wellness. Kick those nay-saying, negative thoughts to the curb.</div>
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