November 3, 2015

The Parable of the Owl

Once upon a time, there was a owl.
And a critter.
And a large Suburban.

You can guess how this story ends , right?

A couple days ago, we were returning home from a cross-Texas vacation. As we drove late at night, we had our eyes open for deer, since they are the more common road hazard. Somewhere in the middle of Texas, we saw a flurry of large white wings flying right into the roadway. Johnny hit the brakes, and we braced for impact with a massive bird. With a thump and a crack, the event was over. Our windshield was cracked, and the bird was gone. The entire event happened in about 3 seconds

Our hearts racing, we checked that everyone was okay in the car. The girls were both still sleeping, but Simon asked, "What was that?" We responded that a bird hit the car. Then, our smart four year old replied, "That was a bad choice."

Since the adrenaline in our veins had us wide awake, we spent time talking about what had just happened. We assumed the bird must have been an owl. Owls hunt at night, and owls are big creatures. We saw its large wingspan and its multitude of thick feathers before impact. Luckily, the owl didn't come through the windshield, and the crack was horizontal along the lower glass. Eventually we'll have to spend a good chunk of money to replace the window, but our family was safe! Whew!

As my husband and I talked about the owl, we realized that the owl did make a "bad choice" in flying across the road. We figure the owl must have been hunting a critter. Some tasty morsel tempted him to fly low into the roadway. Whatever the reason, the owl is now (most likely) dead because of its choice. As big and strong as the owl was, he was no match for a 2 ton vehicle driving at 60 miles an hour.

So how does this event apply to humans?

We all have "critters" we are chasing. We hunt for things in our own lives. Some of the things we seek after are good, but some of the things we desperately hunt down are not healthy.

Are you placing yourself at risk by chasing addictions, power, or prestige? Do you hunt for worldly fame and recognition to the detriment of your family or self-esteem? Do you seek after food so much that you are at risk for health problems? What could be keeping you from a satisfying family life? Does anything pull you away from supportive friendships? Even good things can get in the way of "better" things. Like in this post.

Hopefully our bad choices and bad habits don't lead us down the owl's path. It's worth taking some time to ponder on your "critters," and how you can course correct if necessary. Decide not to follow something in a dangerous roadway. Choose safety and happiness instead.

What might your "critter" be?

You can see the dust outline from feathers and a long scratch up the hood from the bird. We guessing the scratch is from his beak.
The windshield is cracked in a curve along the bottom of the window.



11 comments:

  1. I'm glad you and your family was safe after the event. I can relate to how scary it would be as I was in a MVA recently and totaled my car. Although it wasn't my fault, I've been trying to figure out if I could have done something different to avoid it happening, not that it will help me now. My "critter" is my driving and trying not to get in another wreck.

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  2. It is certainly true that we can get so caught up in what others may think of us that we end up acting in ways that we're not proud of. Social media is a "critter," to many people who engage with it for too long or derive their self esteem from it. Since people are fickle, this creates a volatile mixture of up and down emotional days. I had to learn that we can't chase others approval and that we must seek that place of peace within us and be thankful for the people that we see everyday. Thanks for this story!

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  3. Love your lead in to this post! You really have a way with bringing an anecdote full circle. :D I'm not too sure what my "critter" is but that definitely doesn't mean I don't have one (or a half dozen) that I can't see! I think it's really important to find a balance between the things you can't get enough of and the things that have to be done. Glad to hear that your family is safe, although I'm sorry about your windshield!

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  4. Wow, praise God that you and your family are safe. I too agree that we can be chasing things in life that can put us and the ones around us in danger. Some of these things that we are chasing can ultimately lead to death, just like the bird experience.

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  5. Wow! That's so crazy! So glad you are all safe and what a wonderful way to bring it all full circle! Thank you for sharing for all of us to ponder :)

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  6. Oh wow - I'm so glad you guys are safe! It's crazy how things can happen so quickly. I hit a large hawk one time, and I felt, so, so terrible as I only wounded it. Love how you brought this post around - I definitely have a few critters that I could stand to deal with. It's hard not to want others' approval.

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  7. So sad! When we were driving (in Scotland, of all places) out in the country, we hit a pheasant that ran out of the brush. I cried about that poor bird for hours! I'm so glad you were all okay.

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  8. Poor owl! One time, my parents were returning home from dropping me off at college, and a hawk smashed into their car. They had to drive a bit of a ways with it plastered onto part of the car. I cannot even begin to imagine what something like that looks like.

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  9. I like what you did there ;) there's a lesson to learn in everything that happens to us and it's evident you took something away from what could have been a negative situation. My "critter" would probably be this guy I've been seeing, I know he's not good for me but for some reason I can't walk away...yet.

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  10. Oh, my goodness! I am so glad that you and your family are safe, but your analogy rings so true. We really need to follow our own paths and not follow dangerous things! Thank you for sharing your experience!

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